Philosophy Weekend: Our Twisted Communitarianism

I was talking with friends about the post-Thanksgiving “Black Friday” shopping craze that has become an increasing meme in the United States of America over the past few years. The prevailing opinion among my friends is that this trend represents yet another terrible new turn towards casual violence, selfishness and greed in our craven society, and reports of maniacal frenzies at spots like this Walmart in Moultrie, Georgia seem to bear this interpretation out. One person caught in the Moultrie, Georgia frenzy was quoted expressing disgust about what went down:

“It’s ridiculous and I don’t understand why people would want to treat each other like that,” said B.J. Wright, also a Moultrie resident and frequent shopper there. “My God. It’s just a phone. It’s a material thing. And these are the holidays.”

These words are true … and yet as is often the case when studying the fringes of societal behavior, a fascinating hidden truth emerges once we begin to look deeper into the phenomenon of Black Friday. What appears at first to be a descent into hostile, greedy isolationism turns out to be suffused at nearly every level with communitarian or social impulses. The biggest shock about Black Friday is that the explosion of violent selfishness may have originated as an expression of maniacal communitarianism. Let’s look at all the ways that a Walmart shopping frenzy in Moultrie, Georgia embodies impulses of sociability rather than brute individualism:

  • These people are engaging in a riotous activity together. As in the running of the bulls at Pamplona, Spain, or a football riot in England, or an Ashura festival in Iran, the whole excitement of a Black Friday shopping frenzy is that this is an activity in which strangers go crazy together in a harmonious and organized way.
  • Every single person in the Walmart melee has probably talked to several friends in advance about their plans to join the Black Friday insanity, and is looking forward to telling everybody they know about the actual event once it’s done. The telling of the story is more essential to the enjoyment of the activity than the act itself.
  • The participants in a Walmart frenzy presumably did not arrive alone, but rather traveled with friends and relatives who are spending a Thanksgiving holiday weekend together. Going to a Walmart riot is, probably more often than not, a group activity.
  • The objects that strangers appear to be trying to kill each other to grab in this Moultrie, Georgia video are smartphones. They are fighting to buy communication devices. The ultimate end goal of this violence is not the attainment of selfish pleasure but rather an improved capability for interpersonal communication.
  • Many of these people are presumably not trying to buy cut-price smartphones for themselves, but rather as Christmas gifts to give their loved ones.

What a twisted and fascinating paradox our communitarian impulses are! My point in creating this list is not to forgive the stupidity of Walmart riots, or to find value in weird new American consumerist memes like Black Friday (personally, I do not have the slightest interest in going to a Walmart on the day after Thanksgiving or any other day). Rather, my point is to remind us that we must always look beneath the level of the obvious when we try to analyze the unusual things we do. A person who buys into the superficial notion that Black Friday is about selfishness is missing the larger meaning of the event, and is probably unaware of how frequently we all cross the line between selfish impulses and communitarian impulses in our everyday lives. The line between selfishness and communitarianism often takes a surprisingly jagged course.

Several months ago, Walter Kirn wrote a personal article about Mormon culture for the New Republic that surprised me by stating what, I suppose, should have been obvious. I had always visualized the Church of Latter-Day Saints as a rugged pioneer religion, as flinty and individualistic as the open country it thrives in. But, Kirn pointed out, Mormonism is actually ” our country‚Äôs longest experiment with communitarian idealism”. Communitarian? It took a minute for that to settle in after I first read it, though in fact I see this spirit of friendly cooperation among the several Mormons I personally know, and the cohesive history of the embattled religion bears this out. The fact that Mormonism is an experiment in communitarianism is not even so much a surprising fact about Mormonism as it is a surprising fact about, well, everything. Our societal impulses seem to trump our selfish impulses often they directly conflict, or at least to strongly balance and counter our selfish impulses. We humans are nowhere near as individualistic as we like to think we are.

But the jagged line between selfish individualism and communitarianism does cut both ways — and if it’s true that an apparently greed-oriented event like a Black Friday Walmart smartphone riot can be an expression of social spirit, it must also be the case that some events that appear to be driven by social impulses are in fact driven by selfish concerns. This calls to mind a wedding I went to many years ago. The bride and groom were both old friends from high school, but in an unexpected and unprompted burst of pre-wedding jitters and extreme anxiety a couple of days before the wedding, the bride-to-be suddenly blurted out to me a shocking array of dirty secrets and negative feelings about the man she was marrying and the family she was marrying into, and about her blatantly illogical and unromantic motivations for taking this step in her life. The bride’s words rang harshly in my ears a couple of days later as I sat in the church watching the wedding, in a grand room suffused with sweet symbols and momentos of romance and idealistic love and familial affection. The visible atmosphere of social warmth in the church was actually a fragile veneer over a teeming whirlpool of alienation and isolation. (I’ve since lost touch with both the bride and the groom, and I do hope they have managed to forge a strong relationship from these confused beginnings — I think it’s entirely possible that they have.)

In the existential cauldron of real life, selfish greed and generous societal awareness probably intermingle constantly, and we should never make the mistake of emphasizing the power of either impulse to the exclusion of the other. The important lesson to be learned, I think, is to avoid the kind of superficial or simple analysis of our everyday events that would lead us to conclude that either of these impulses can ever operate in the absence of the other.

When we are most alone, we may be the most connected. When we are the most connected, we may be the most alone. It’s the way our individualistic and communitarian impulses twist together that provides the torque of our lives. We should always be aware that both impulses are always in effect, and then we have a better chance of understanding our own lives — our private lives and our shared lives — as deeply and fully as we can.

5 Responses

  1. Levi, I never cease to laugh
    Levi, I never cease to laugh at the antics of certain “Walmartians”… However, it is really sad when folks start trampling each other, etc. I don’t usually stay out too late or get up really early unless I am on third shift or something…

    As for myself, I am a “Targeterran” & frequent the halls of Target stores. I hardly ever shop at Walmart or “Wally’s World”. I even laugh when I see the Target store ads on TV. Imagine, camping out to buy a cell phone or lap top?…Wow! I wonder what is in their coffee that they are drinking!?

  2. There’s was over a dozen
    There’s was over a dozen arrests in Rapid City during Black Friday. Rapid is a community of less then 100,000.

    One the incidents included an assault over a set of bed sheets outside a Wal Mart. One gentlemen was arrested for assault at 230a bonded out and was arrested for shoplifting before 10a.

    I think its a have/have not issue out in the Hills. Its absurd–Rapid in one of those closed societies with a strict class divide. White middle/upper middle class people and poor Native Americans.

    Its says lots about the division of wealth/poverty. It makes me wonder why the rich think its a good idea to further the divide. The larger the apparent difference becomes the more socials ills will ensue.

    South Dakota has a strange demography—85% white, 10% Native and 5% other. I’ve been running with the Skins for as long as I can remember–but generally the division is rather strict.

    Natives stick to Natives and Whites stick with Whites. It is how we end up with some of richest and poorest counties in nation.

    Gripping poverty is the story of the Indian reservations yet Lincoln County remains one of the most affluent counties in the nation.

    It extends beyond racial issues…a ‘decent’ wage in Sioux Falls is $9-yet somehow South Dakota turned up to be 14th in per capita wages.

    It’s a microchasm I suppose—in essence the richer get richer the poor get poorer and racial/social divides worsen.

    No one wants hungry babies

  3. Hi Levi, I think your point
    Hi Levi, I think your point that our social and our individual desires are profoundly interwoven is a really important one. Just wanted to add a couple of bullet points to the ones you laid out re: Black Friday and sociability:

    -The reason these crowds amass is that Walmart and others successfully market Black Friday as a can’t-miss event. It’s us being told that we should each desire something individually because everyone desires it collectively.

    -People racing and fighting each other for the hottest and best value items is just a quickened/condensed version of a behavior that people enjoy engaging in all the time. In addition to being communication devices (which is very telling, as you point out), smart phones are also status symbols.

  4. Baroque-

    Clever how these merchants brainwash people into spending money that they perhaps don’t have on crap they don’t need.

    Status symbols for example. This is a good example of something that really benefits the person selling the item more than the person buying, in the economic sense. But the buyer gets a sort of social or psychological lift. Hmmm…

  5. Where does this primitive
    Where does this primitive sense of greed come from? Who would wait on line for days, living in a tent, just to get the first crack at a $177 TV? Why not cultivate some dignity, budget for the TV you want then buy it whenever you please?

    All of the rest that follows in the wake of the Black Friday crush is just an extension of the root of the problem.

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